“Let go. Just hand me whatever you are holding onto. I cannot take it from you, because we are equals, and if you choose to hold on to pain and fear and separation, I accept you that way. If you choose to let go of pain and fear and separation, I am overjoyed, and embrace you with my life. Holding onto the pain is a simple choice. I am suggesting to you that you make the choice to let it go. Then hand it to me.”