“Let go.  Just hand me whatever you are holding onto.  I cannot take it from you, because we are equals, and if you choose to hold on to pain and fear and separation, I accept you that way.  If you choose to let go of pain and fear and separation, I am overjoyed, and embrace you with my life.  Holding onto the pain is a simple choice.  I am suggesting to you that you make the choice to let it go. Then hand it to me.”